Alcoholics Anonymous

gonee · gonee

I went to a group anniversary meeting tonight and one of the speakers on that panel was a 14 year old boy who shared. He told of how the fact that his father's drinking had affected him so much. It brought back so many of my own experiences of my dad's alcoholism. The crazy thing about this disease is that 3y...

luvmymaddy · luvmymaddy

i just wanted to tell everyone thank you so much for all the great advice! thanks to ya'll i went back to a meeting that was really great and i got a few potential temp sponsor contacts. i am very excited and can't wait to get this going now. this has really made my day and lots of ((((hugs)))) to everyone...

Wren · Wren

I enjoyed this, and wanted to share it-- A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world. Everyone you meet is your mirror--- Ken Keyes I do not see the world the way it is; I see it the way I am. chris

Gil22 · Gil22

I think I probably should but its funny how your mind only focuses on the good times and forgets all the times you acted like an ass and embarrassed yourself. Yesterday I was pretty down because of how stupid I got Wednesday night and yesterday morning but now the guilt and shame are already fading away....

luvmymaddy · luvmymaddy

hi everyone, i am so new and don't know what to do about my situation. i have been clean for 9 months and doing it on my own and going to an outpatient group once a week. i decided to go to a meeting the other day because i absolutely had to and when i left i felt really great and like that was the right decisi...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

"It is not just a person's physical constitution, their intelligence, their education, or even their social conditioning that enables them to withstand hardship. Much more significant is their inner development. And while some may be able to survive through sheer willpower, the ones who s...

SoberSteve · SoberSteve

This idea came from another thread that converted to this question and I figured I would make it its own thread, its a interesting topic... Would you break your sobriety? Would you pour it out? Ration? What would you do? Id dump it out and use the bottle to store water :)

Just Toni · Just Toni

Good Morning, When I was putting in my favorite attibutes, thought about a Post of a Poem that Phil put on the Board, long time ago, I saved it, and thought you all might enjoy.... ............................................................... Poet Naomi Shihab Nye in her poem "...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

"Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Self-centeredness was my problem. All my life people had been doing things for me and I not only expected it, but I was ungrateful and resentful t...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Hi Everyone, With the friends you have, and the people you just might meet today or any day.... What makes you smile, and admire a quality or qualities in their being who they are. Also what attributes would immediately turn you off and not want to go any further after you have met someone....? Maybe sho...

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

Hi Family Thanks for the prayers and advice. Letting my HP take care of the outcome on my DUI was grueling but a fine practice in how I should handle most all of my state of affairs. I do go to Jail on the 10th of next month and only have to serve 60 days. I do got to tell you all something. I let it out but will nev...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: This is a simple program for complicated people. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer I heard a speaker with years in recovery share that she'd always done it her own way - that she met friends at bars if she felt like it, had never had a sponsor, and sometimes went for mo...

connornm · connornm

I was thinking of moving down to Cusco, peru, but i dont know of any meetings down there. are there english or spanish AA meetings down there? any info would be greatly appreciated.

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: The best thing that can come with success is the knowledge that it is nothing to long for. --Liv Ullmann Success may be defined in many ways. In our youth, we may have measured success in terms of having a million dollars, two cars, a swimming pool. But we are coming to be...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

"My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76 The joy of life is in the giving. Being freed of my shortcomings, that I may more freely be of service, allows humility to grow in me. My shortcomings can be humbly placed in God's loving car...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

My physics teacher once told us that we don't walk by exerting a forward force. Instead, we exert a backward force upon the Earth - we try to push the world backwards. Since the Earth is so much more massive than we are, it doesn't work and instead our bodies move forward. In the same way, if we're climb...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

The interview with the local surgeon for the surgical assistant position went very well... I thank AA for teaching me over the years that I have been involved in recovery, that I am valuable and that it is okay to show CONFIDENCE in the abilities and experience God has given me through times of sobriety...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

up at about 2am here...... not on purpose, but I sure didn't make good decisions that got me here! ate over a quart of fresh strawberries earlier... sliced them up and poured about a half cup of sugar all over... put in the fridge.. immediately removed and ate The Whole Thing.... (ouch... gurgle gurgl...

jj · jj

Brian filled me in on Rule 62 (i appreciated that so much) that i couldn't help and correlate that to the discord that happens between ALL people, and maybe especially alcoholics. "Don't take yourself so [damn] seriously." If i don't take what others say to me so PERSONALLY, maybe i c...

louisa · louisa

Hello everyone, Not sure if this is appropriate but I wonder if I could ask for your prayers for an alcoholic who is appealing against his death sentence. His name is John and he was in somebody's company when they died. He was blind drunk. His appeal is being heard at the moment (started yesterday). I o...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

AAhistory.com is a cool site that I found earlier this year while looking for something else. I wound up registering my sobriety date there and just got a (early) cool birthday greeting. Very nice. Check out their site and sign up your sobriety date. [url]http://www.aahistory.com/add/sign....

Wren · Wren

I've been reading Richard Rohr off and on for the last year or so. I can take one of his subjects and spend days contemplating on what he shares. These are three of the several things he wrote concerning 'what a joyful is'. When your mind does not need to be right. When you no longer need to compare yourself...

gonee · gonee

I am grateful for every little bit that helps sustain my recovery. I am grateful for this forum and friends like you who take time off to write something to inspire me. I am grateful to my group for the help they give me when I am down and out. Sometimes I take you for granted. Then I go some place and I realise...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

We were talking about this at the Women's meeting tonight.... that often times by the time I realize there IS a problem, God is already working out a solution.. and I often need DO very little, except TRUST and be open to guidance. This is definitely a program of Action. but that doesn't mean I need to ACT...

Tomas · Tomas

AA is an organization that I found...whose primary purpose is to help members stay sober...I discovered that in the early stages...I simply did what other members did to be successful in staying sober...primarily this involved going to many meetings...one or two a day...My entire life revolve...

TwelveSteps · TwelveSteps

Hi everyone, I became an alcoholic because of insomnia. What steers as one glass of wine before bed 12 or so years ago eventually became 2 bottles. So now that I am not drinking, I struggle with how to sleep. I'm going through a breakup right now (only my second serious relationship after being with...

Izzit · Izzit

New here, joined due to girlfriend being on another board I was on. I hear it said and have been told that I can't understand. I read and hear it about spouses , friends , pretty much anyone that is not in the fellowship. Problem is, I have been sober and working at my sobriety for close to 5 years and just do...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

Thank you so much for the love and prayers, from the bottom of our hearts. Scouty is feeling fine, on pain medicine, and the 3 skin cancers were removed successfully. She sends her love, and now mommy can commence a few days of staying in with her, reading and thanking God that I am sober and can care for he...

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

In the dream I had about 3 weeks to live, some rare disease or something. So then I mentioned it to my wife over the phone and said I thought if I had 3 weeks to live I'd probably drink. After I got off the phone I thought about it some more and realized that I probably would NOT drink in those circumstances. ...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

By this time in all probability we have gained some measure of release from our more devastating handicaps. We enjoy moments in which there is something like real peace of mind. To those of us who have hitherto known only excitement, depression, or anxiety--in other words, to all of us--this newfoun...

John · John

From me to many of you, (those who wrote and those who simply read, and most important those who prayed) To each and every person who responded to my post about the young man who died last week and was buried this weekend, my heart embraced every word you shared with me. Intellecutally, I already knew wh...

Aquaman · Aquaman

I prefer reading to TV most days. Keeps the vocab locked & loaded. Problem, though... When I find an author that I like, I read them dry and my favorite genre is horror/suspense/crime. Authors include.... Thomas Harris Stephen King Chuck Pahluhneik All the "Dexter" books. I have rea...

Avril G · Avril G

Hi guys, Just drop0ped ion to thank you all for your messages during my 'sabbatical' from this site!! Life has a strange way of knocking yo9u off kilter and keeping you there sometimes eh?? I will try to get yopu up to speed on what's been happening in my world recently, but too long a task right now - I hav...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Just had to say Hi. Miss coming here and writing, just reading every so often. I almost dont want to say this, feels like a broken record, well in my head anyway...some serious health issues, and the big one, my heart, but the good news is many options will be coming up, so no surgery.....thank you God. M...

gonee · gonee

Our Monday night group showed a movie tonight. We had about 60 people, AA, Alanon and kids. The movie we showed was "Love is not enough." It was such a nice movie. After the show we had snacks and fellowship. We have great fellowship because we have great recovery. All the members really care...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: Trying to pray is praying. --Anonymous "Oh, God, help me! If you get me out of this mess, I'll never screw up again." This was our favorite prayer before we entered the Program. We were always bargaining with God. We have learned new prayers and a new way to t...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

There are certain things that can bring people together, and even smooth over difficult moments with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse... Meet Scooter, 10 week old Norwegian Elkhound pup.

runnergirl · runnergirl

My meeting tonight was a step meeting (my personal favorite). Tonight was Step 1, which is such an important reminder for me. Anyway, my big thought went something like this... After my most recent therapy appointment, I started wondering what I'm going to do with all the crap I'm starting to talk abo...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

You Oldbird! What a beautiful age to be, Larry. Thank you for being here. You've made yourself most welcome :) Have a wonderful & bright sober birthday for Tuesday 24hrs. Yours, wishing you recovery love & happiness on your very special day, Danielle x

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

I did a google search and saw some out there, but none that seemed suitable for my daughter. She tried Ala-Teen and didn't like it. She didn't even think I was an alcoholic, so she initially resisted all of this and I think right now she still doesn't really know what to think (I'm 17 months sober). I re...

bikerbill · bikerbill

I read a share in an old AA magazine. I thought that maybe there was no-one else in the same position I'm in who would be willing to share it, until I read this share. Part of it mirrored exactly my experience. the sharer finished by saying to the effect that once amends have been made as best as possible, th...

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

Please keep her in your prayers... she is my LOVE, my little baby, my daughter, my confindant, my very best friend in this world. She gets skin cancers, and has several which need to be removed tomorrow. God, please bless my pup with a safe trip to and from the vet, and keep your hand on her.

jonijoni1 · jonijoni1

.... with a surgeon, for a new assistant, this Wed. morning at 7:30am.... I have been working part time only for the practice I worked at for 2 years... and the doctors split up and parted ways, so I began being the one who went back and forth, and scheduled all over the place, which was fine at the time.......

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

Hey, I'm an alcoholic so I don't like what I perceive as being talked to from on high, and then not given any chance to respond. I don't much like the idea of posting some kind of guideline for a message board and then having the topic immediately closed so nobody has the chance to put in their two cents exc...

The Sword · The Sword

I have talked with my sponsor, and am going to follow what he did with me in a general way, but I'd like to get some thoughts from the group here. Any mistakes you made or things to watch out for?

FlyingSquirrel · FlyingSquirrel

I know that there are about a zillion character defects at work here. But there's only so much I can do about that right now.So I'll keep it simple:Just give me advice on what course of action you think would be most likely to help keep me sober.'Cause right now I'm on the verge of saying the "**** it&...

Wren · Wren

If you have knowledge, let others light their candles at it.~ Margaret Fuller We are seen as powerful examples every time we speak at a meeting, offer encouragement, and give supposrt to those in need. The knowlege we've gathered from the strength and hope of the program is a gift to share with others....

Jerry F · Jerry F

Aloha Fellowship...It's time to input and be responsible. I had mentioned that I was backing out for a while in reaction to how another share was shared. I took responsibility for how I thought others would think about it and feel about it instantly coming to the conclusion that my own thoughts and f...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

But now the words "Of myself I am nothing, the Father doeth the works" began to carry bright promise and meaning. 12 & 12, p. 75 When I put the Seventh Step into action I must remember that there are no blanks to fill in. It doesn't say, "Humbly asked Him to (fill in the blank) remove ou...

Larry_H · Larry_H

Today's thought from Hazelden is: Gratitude is a way of life. Saying thank you from the heart makes us feel full. Perhaps we don't really know we have something until we express our thanks for it. There are different levels of gratitude. There is the polite, automatic response when someone opens a doo...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Alcoholism- A family disease. (Preview) I went to a group anniversary meeting tonight and one of the speakers on that panel was a 14 year old boy who shared. He told of how the fact that his father's drinking had affected him so much. It brought back so many of my own experiences of my dad's alcoholism. The crazy thing about this disease is that 3y...	gonee	8	2169	Jul 25, 2010 by Lexie
	just want to say thank you!! (Preview) i just wanted to tell everyone thank you so much for all the great advice! thanks to ya'll i went back to a meeting that was really great and i got a few potential temp sponsor contacts. i am very excited and can't wait to get this going now. this has really made my day and lots of ((((hugs)))) to everyone...	luvmymaddy	9	852	Jul 25, 2010 by luvmymaddy
	Just a Quickie (Preview) I enjoyed this, and wanted to share it-- A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world. Everyone you meet is your mirror--- Ken Keyes I do not see the world the way it is; I see it the way I am. chris	Wren	10	1069	Jul 25, 2010 by pinkchip
	Should I quit drinking? (Preview) I think I probably should but its funny how your mind only focuses on the good times and forgets all the times you acted like an ass and embarrassed yourself. Yesterday I was pretty down because of how stupid I got Wednesday night and yesterday morning but now the guilt and shame are already fading away....	Gil22	12	2530	Jul 25, 2010 by jonijoni1
	went to a meeting but scared to go back (Preview) hi everyone, i am so new and don't know what to do about my situation. i have been clean for 9 months and doing it on my own and going to an outpatient group once a week. i decided to go to a meeting the other day because i absolutely had to and when i left i felt really great and like that was the right decisi...	luvmymaddy	15	1614	Jul 25, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Today's Dalai Lama Facebook Quote (Preview) "It is not just a person's physical constitution, their intelligence, their education, or even their social conditioning that enables them to withstand hardship. Much more significant is their inner development. And while some may be able to survive through sheer willpower, the ones who s...	StPeteDean	4	6063	Jul 24, 2010 by Simple
	What would you do if you were stranded on a island with nothing but a bottle of Vodka? (Preview) This idea came from another thread that converted to this question and I figured I would make it its own thread, its a interesting topic... Would you break your sobriety? Would you pour it out? Ration? What would you do? Id dump it out and use the bottle to store water :)	SoberSteve	21	1760	Jul 24, 2010 by Just Toni
	Kindness (Preview) Good Morning, When I was putting in my favorite attibutes, thought about a Post of a Poem that Phil put on the Board, long time ago, I saved it, and thought you all might enjoy.... ............................................................... Poet Naomi Shihab Nye in her poem "...	Just Toni	5	1106	Jul 24, 2010 by Just Toni
	Daily Reflections ~ Helping Others & 24hrs a Day (Preview) "Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Self-centeredness was my problem. All my life people had been doing things for me and I not only expected it, but I was ungrateful and resentful t...	Sobrietyspell	1	1177	Jul 24, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	What are your favorite attributes in others? (Preview) Hi Everyone, With the friends you have, and the people you just might meet today or any day.... What makes you smile, and admire a quality or qualities in their being who they are. Also what attributes would immediately turn you off and not want to go any further after you have met someone....? Maybe sho...	Just Toni	12	1227	Jul 24, 2010 by jj
	It is tuff to do what is right. (Preview) Hi Family Thanks for the prayers and advice. Letting my HP take care of the outcome on my DUI was grueling but a fine practice in how I should handle most all of my state of affairs. I do go to Jail on the 10th of next month and only have to serve 60 days. I do got to tell you all something. I let it out but will nev...	buckeyebear	4	858	Jul 24, 2010 by pinkchip
	This is a simple program for complicated people (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: This is a simple program for complicated people. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer I heard a speaker with years in recovery share that she'd always done it her own way - that she met friends at bars if she felt like it, had never had a sponsor, and sometimes went for mo...	Larry_H	4	1355	Jul 24, 2010 by Halfwolf
	looking for english meetings in cusco, peru. anyone know of something? (Preview) I was thinking of moving down to Cusco, peru, but i dont know of any meetings down there. are there english or spanish AA meetings down there? any info would be greatly appreciated.	connornm	4	3540	Jul 23, 2010 by Larry_H
	Success may be defined in many ways (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: The best thing that can come with success is the knowledge that it is nothing to long for. --Liv Ullmann Success may be defined in many ways. In our youth, we may have measured success in terms of having a million dollars, two cars, a swimming pool. But we are coming to be...	Larry_H	1	710	Jul 23, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Daily Reflections ~ The Good And The Bad & 24hrs a Day (Preview) "My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76 The joy of life is in the giving. Being freed of my shortcomings, that I may more freely be of service, allows humility to grow in me. My shortcomings can be humbly placed in God's loving car...	Sobrietyspell	1	793	Jul 23, 2010 by Jason J
	A couple of random thoughts on spiritual progress (Preview) My physics teacher once told us that we don't walk by exerting a forward force. Instead, we exert a backward force upon the Earth - we try to push the world backwards. Since the Earth is so much more massive than we are, it doesn't work and instead our bodies move forward. In the same way, if we're climb...	FlyingSquirrel	3	761	Jul 23, 2010 by Lexie
	Update on job interview and current "state of being" (Preview) The interview with the local surgeon for the surgical assistant position went very well... I thank AA for teaching me over the years that I have been involved in recovery, that I am valuable and that it is okay to show CONFIDENCE in the abilities and experience God has given me through times of sobriety...	jonijoni1	10	997	Jul 23, 2010 by Aquaman
	Brilliant.... just brilliant (Preview) up at about 2am here...... not on purpose, but I sure didn't make good decisions that got me here! ate over a quart of fresh strawberries earlier... sliced them up and poured about a half cup of sugar all over... put in the fridge.. immediately removed and ate The Whole Thing.... (ouch... gurgle gurgl...	jonijoni1	8	1112	Jul 23, 2010 by jonijoni1
	I learned this here (Preview) Brian filled me in on Rule 62 (i appreciated that so much) that i couldn't help and correlate that to the discord that happens between ALL people, and maybe especially alcoholics. "Don't take yourself so [damn] seriously." If i don't take what others say to me so PERSONALLY, maybe i c...	jj	4	764	Jul 23, 2010 by Aquaman
	prayers? (Preview) Hello everyone, Not sure if this is appropriate but I wonder if I could ask for your prayers for an alcoholic who is appealing against his death sentence. His name is John and he was in somebody's company when they died. He was blind drunk. His appeal is being heard at the moment (started yesterday). I o...	louisa	12	1228	Jul 23, 2010 by louisa
	AA History.com (Preview) AAhistory.com is a cool site that I found earlier this year while looking for something else. I wound up registering my sobriety date there and just got a (early) cool birthday greeting. Very nice. Check out their site and sign up your sobriety date. [url]http://www.aahistory.com/add/sign....	StPeteDean	3	1216	Jul 23, 2010 by SoberSteve
	A Joyful Mind ( really???) (Preview) I've been reading Richard Rohr off and on for the last year or so. I can take one of his subjects and spend days contemplating on what he shares. These are three of the several things he wrote concerning 'what a joyful is'. When your mind does not need to be right. When you no longer need to compare yourself...	Wren	10	1921	Jul 23, 2010 by jonijoni1
	My Gratitude (Preview) I am grateful for every little bit that helps sustain my recovery. I am grateful for this forum and friends like you who take time off to write something to inspire me. I am grateful to my group for the help they give me when I am down and out. Sometimes I take you for granted. Then I go some place and I realise...	gonee	4	940	Jul 22, 2010 by pinkchip
	"The Solution is Already Being Worked Out" (Preview) We were talking about this at the Women's meeting tonight.... that often times by the time I realize there IS a problem, God is already working out a solution.. and I often need DO very little, except TRUST and be open to guidance. This is definitely a program of Action. but that doesn't mean I need to ACT...	jonijoni1	5	1100	Jul 22, 2010 by Larry_H
	A Penny for My Thoughts (Preview) AA is an organization that I found...whose primary purpose is to help members stay sober...I discovered that in the early stages...I simply did what other members did to be successful in staying sober...primarily this involved going to many meetings...one or two a day...My entire life revolve...	Tomas	8	969	Jul 22, 2010 by Mike B.
	Another sleepless night (Preview) Hi everyone, I became an alcoholic because of insomnia. What steers as one glass of wine before bed 12 or so years ago eventually became 2 bottles. So now that I am not drinking, I struggle with how to sleep. I'm going through a breakup right now (only my second serious relationship after being with...	TwelveSteps	14	2294	Jul 22, 2010 by TwelveSteps
	"You can't understand" (Preview) New here, joined due to girlfriend being on another board I was on. I hear it said and have been told that I can't understand. I read and hear it about spouses , friends , pretty much anyone that is not in the fellowship. Problem is, I have been sober and working at my sobriety for close to 5 years and just do...	Izzit	12	1103	Jul 22, 2010 by pinkchip
	Thanks for Prayers- Scouty is Home and Healing (Preview) Thank you so much for the love and prayers, from the bottom of our hearts. Scouty is feeling fine, on pain medicine, and the 3 skin cancers were removed successfully. She sends her love, and now mommy can commence a few days of staying in with her, reading and thanking God that I am sober and can care for he...	jonijoni1	9	972	Jul 21, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Had an interesting revelation this morning after waking up from a dream (Preview) In the dream I had about 3 weeks to live, some rare disease or something. So then I mentioned it to my wife over the phone and said I thought if I had 3 weeks to live I'd probably drink. After I got off the phone I thought about it some more and realized that I probably would NOT drink in those circumstances. ...	FlyingSquirrel	6	823	Jul 21, 2010 by angelov8
	Daily Reflections ~ A Priceless Gift & 24hrs a Day (Preview) By this time in all probability we have gained some measure of release from our more devastating handicaps. We enjoy moments in which there is something like real peace of mind. To those of us who have hitherto known only excitement, depression, or anxiety--in other words, to all of us--this newfoun...	Sobrietyspell	1	976	Jul 21, 2010 by Jerry F
	A special "THANK YOU" (Preview) From me to many of you, (those who wrote and those who simply read, and most important those who prayed) To each and every person who responded to my post about the young man who died last week and was buried this weekend, my heart embraced every word you shared with me. Intellecutally, I already knew wh...	John	12	1194	Jul 21, 2010 by jonijoni1
	Hey Recreational Readers...I need a hand... (Preview) I prefer reading to TV most days. Keeps the vocab locked & loaded. Problem, though... When I find an author that I like, I read them dry and my favorite genre is horror/suspense/crime. Authors include.... Thomas Harris Stephen King Chuck Pahluhneik All the "Dexter" books. I have rea...	Aquaman	24	1003	Jul 21, 2010 by pinkchip
	DIFFERENT DAY - SAME **** + Happy Happy 20th Sober Birthday Avril!!! (Preview) Hi guys, Just drop0ped ion to thank you all for your messages during my 'sabbatical' from this site!! Life has a strange way of knocking yo9u off kilter and keeping you there sometimes eh?? I will try to get yopu up to speed on what's been happening in my world recently, but too long a task right now - I hav...	Avril G	20	2150	Jul 21, 2010 by pinkchip
	Hi Everyone (Preview) Just had to say Hi. Miss coming here and writing, just reading every so often. I almost dont want to say this, feels like a broken record, well in my head anyway...some serious health issues, and the big one, my heart, but the good news is many options will be coming up, so no surgery.....thank you God. M...	Just Toni	9	862	Jul 21, 2010 by pinkchip
	Movie night (Preview) Our Monday night group showed a movie tonight. We had about 60 people, AA, Alanon and kids. The movie we showed was "Love is not enough." It was such a nice movie. After the show we had snacks and fellowship. We have great fellowship because we have great recovery. All the members really care...	gonee	4	877	Jul 21, 2010 by gonee
	"Oh, God, help me! If you get me out of this mess, I'll never screw up again." (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: Trying to pray is praying. --Anonymous "Oh, God, help me! If you get me out of this mess, I'll never screw up again." This was our favorite prayer before we entered the Program. We were always bargaining with God. We have learned new prayers and a new way to t...	Larry_H	5	2771	Jul 21, 2010 by John
	The New Pup (Preview) There are certain things that can bring people together, and even smooth over difficult moments with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse... Meet Scooter, 10 week old Norwegian Elkhound pup.	jonijoni1	27	1446	Jul 20, 2010 by Mike B.
	My "enlightened" thought (Preview) My meeting tonight was a step meeting (my personal favorite). Tonight was Step 1, which is such an important reminder for me. Anyway, my big thought went something like this... After my most recent therapy appointment, I started wondering what I'm going to do with all the crap I'm starting to talk abo...	runnergirl	5	967	Jul 20, 2010 by louisa
	Happy 66th Bellybutton Birthday, Larry! (Preview) You Oldbird! What a beautiful age to be, Larry. Thank you for being here. You've made yourself most welcome :) Have a wonderful & bright sober birthday for Tuesday 24hrs. Yours, wishing you recovery love & happiness on your very special day, Danielle x	Sobrietyspell	14	2222	Jul 20, 2010 by Larry_H
	Books for Teenage Children of Alcoholics? (Preview) I did a google search and saw some out there, but none that seemed suitable for my daughter. She tried Ala-Teen and didn't like it. She didn't even think I was an alcoholic, so she initially resisted all of this and I think right now she still doesn't really know what to think (I'm 17 months sober). I re...	FlyingSquirrel	5	1272	Jul 20, 2010 by Avril G
	I read this in an old AA Magazine (Preview) I read a share in an old AA magazine. I thought that maybe there was no-one else in the same position I'm in who would be willing to share it, until I read this share. Part of it mirrored exactly my experience. the sharer finished by saying to the effect that once amends have been made as best as possible, th...	bikerbill	6	992	Jul 20, 2010 by Avril G
	My Dog goes in for surgery tomorrow (Preview) Please keep her in your prayers... she is my LOVE, my little baby, my daughter, my confindant, my very best friend in this world. She gets skin cancers, and has several which need to be removed tomorrow. God, please bless my pup with a safe trip to and from the vet, and keep your hand on her.	jonijoni1	8	856	Jul 20, 2010 by jonijoni1
	WOW... BIG INTERVIEW (Preview) .... with a surgeon, for a new assistant, this Wed. morning at 7:30am.... I have been working part time only for the practice I worked at for 2 years... and the doctors split up and parted ways, so I began being the one who went back and forth, and scheduled all over the place, which was fine at the time.......	jonijoni1	15	1207	Jul 20, 2010 by Mike B.
	Non-sticky: No One will be offended (Preview) Hey, I'm an alcoholic so I don't like what I perceive as being talked to from on high, and then not given any chance to respond. I don't much like the idea of posting some kind of guideline for a message board and then having the topic immediately closed so nobody has the chance to put in their two cents exc...	FlyingSquirrel	28	1650	Jul 20, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Advice on being a sponsor for the first time (Preview) I have talked with my sponsor, and am going to follow what he did with me in a general way, but I'd like to get some thoughts from the group here. Any mistakes you made or things to watch out for?	The Sword	10	8072	Jul 20, 2010 by louisa
	Ok, someone help me boil this down please... (Preview) I know that there are about a zillion character defects at work here. But there's only so much I can do about that right now.So I'll keep it simple:Just give me advice on what course of action you think would be most likely to help keep me sober.'Cause right now I'm on the verge of saying the "**** it&...	FlyingSquirrel	10	1192	Jul 20, 2010 by FlyingSquirrel
	Night Light (Preview) If you have knowledge, let others light their candles at it.~ Margaret Fuller We are seen as powerful examples every time we speak at a meeting, offer encouragement, and give supposrt to those in need. The knowlege we've gathered from the strength and hope of the program is a gift to share with others....	Wren	4	1062	Jul 20, 2010 by pinkchip
	Reactive...but not nuclear any more. (Preview) Aloha Fellowship...It's time to input and be responsible. I had mentioned that I was backing out for a while in reaction to how another share was shared. I took responsibility for how I thought others would think about it and feel about it instantly coming to the conclusion that my own thoughts and f...	Jerry F	11	1096	Jul 19, 2010 by turninggrey
	Daily Reflections ~ Shortcomings Removed & 24hrs a Day (Preview) But now the words "Of myself I am nothing, the Father doeth the works" began to carry bright promise and meaning. 12 & 12, p. 75 When I put the Seventh Step into action I must remember that there are no blanks to fill in. It doesn't say, "Humbly asked Him to (fill in the blank) remove ou...	Sobrietyspell	0	823	Jul 19, 2010 by Sobrietyspell
	Gratitude is a way of life. (Preview) Today's thought from Hazelden is: Gratitude is a way of life. Saying thank you from the heart makes us feel full. Perhaps we don't really know we have something until we express our thanks for it. There are different levels of gratitude. There is the polite, automatic response when someone opens a doo...	Larry_H	6	1931	Jul 19, 2010 by gonee
«First < 1 … 259 260 261 262 263 … 514 > Last» \| Page of 514 sorted by