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TODAY IS MY 44th ANNIVERSARY
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Today is my 44th year Anniversary...I came to my first meeting of AA Jan, 12th 1974...It was a cold New England day in Marblehead Ma.. I would have died soon if I did not go to that meeting to warm up and get a cup of coffee. I was ignorant as to what AA was about.. .I was heading for trouble...Instead I was gi...
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Alcohol Withdrawal in Women
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Hello everyone, First I want to thank you all for being members here at MIP. I have been lurking on the boards for a couple of years now, while I was not sure I was an alcoholic. However, having started a new full time job in February and getting sick of hitting bottoms, I have been attending AA meetings i...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 1-8
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January 8, 2018Quote of the WeekFaith is spelled a-c-t-i-o-n.. I did a lot of thinking when I was drinking. Id think about how bad my life was and how things werent going to get any better. As I kept drinking, I thought about all the things I could do, and after a few more drinks, I thought about how good I...
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HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH TERRIBLE AA MEETINGS.
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Last night I went to a meeting I usually go to, it was an beginners meeting. The speaker shared a long war story, then open it up for discussion , people shared about drinking. This one old timer shared about someone he saw drinking and dying. Then a lady shared about nonsense not even related to alcoholi...
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My big brother's funeral
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It was yesterday. A grim, wet and miserable day, there was sadness, reflection, tears and a lot of laughs.
Over 300 people attended. Mostly his friends. Every one of those I spoke to said basically the same thing.
He was a grumpy, growly owd bugger on the outside, but get past that and he was a gentlema...
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Living in Puerto Lopez Ecuador
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cant find meetings ...know or any ....English oe Spanish? Loners?
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I'm new to this site.
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I was a former meeting attendee, but haven't in some time now. I just found out that I won't have a job April 1st, and am already getting nervous. I know that if I keep drinking everyday nobody will want me. I'm looking for a support group to help me get clean. I know the steps but need to stay strong, not...
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Happy new year
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I hope everybody has a sober and blessed 2018.
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Wisdom of the Rooms 1-1
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January 1, 2018Quote of the WeekBut by the grace of God, there go I. In early sobriety, I sometimes had trouble identifying with other peoples alcoholism, and often wondered whether I belonged. After all, I had never been to prison for manslaughter while driving drunk. I never robbed a liquor sto...
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Simple Reminders - Dec
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Today's Gift - Dec
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Do not cut down the tree that gives you shade. --Arabian proverb We need to remember what got us well. The Twelve Steps heal us. The meetings we attend heal us. Reading and listening to program tapes heal us. Talking with our sponsor heals us. The time we spend with program friends heals us. Sometimes we...
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Change and Emotional Recovery
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First time poster, been in AA and recovery for many years, had 15 plus years of sobriety/abstinence and now have almost 3 after a bad relapse. I hope this is not offensive, but I go to meetings now primarily to change and grow up in recovery, not simply to "hold on and not drink or use". I found out the hard w...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 12 - 25
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December 25, 2017Quote of the WeekSpirituality is the ability to get our minds off ourselves." When I was newly sober, all I thought about was myself. How was I going to not drink tonight, or tomorrow; how was I going to work the program if I didnt believe in God; who was going to pay my bills if I could...
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Friends across the pond. ...had some tough news
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As you know i find it cathartic and cleansing to post on here. Selfish I know but thats what I do.
Sometimes it is easier to write than to say face to face.
This one though, i talked with my spinsor and with my surrogate spinsor first. I'm ok.
My big brother, the eldest brother, my mate Ronnie died at 5am...
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Happy Sober Holidays
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Merry Christmas and Happy New Years to all my family here ... Love youse guys and THANKS for helping me to stay sober ... May God Bless us everyone, Pappy
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Meeting list Liverpool.
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Could I please have an up to date meeting list for Liverpool. If I am on the wrong site, could someone direct me to the correct one. Thank you, Eileen.
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What Is One Drink?
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The blunt, physiological truth for us, as of today, is that a drink pretty surely means a drunk sooner or later, and that spells trouble. Living Sober, 1975
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Liver pain...
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I feel pain in my liver. It used to be only after drinking, but these days it's always kind of there. It still flares up worse after a binge, but it never completely goes away now. That can't be good :|
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Alcoholic friend stuck with DUI
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Hey My friend was caught last day for impaired driving. His car collided with another vehicle and he was caught. It was found, the alcohol level in the blood exceeded the permissible range. Is it a serious issue? What should be done to save him? Should we meet [url=http://www.spam/]SPAM Link deleted...
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Your First Meeting Experience? First meeting jitters
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Hi everyone. Today is my first day sober. I know that alcohol causes me to be destructive and angry, and it's really taking a toll on me and my relationship with my boyfriend. I've been wanting to quit drinking for quite a while, but by the time 5pm rolls around, I just say fuck it and tell myself that I'll j...
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Sanity Check - Please weigh in
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Hi All! Please do me a favor and let me know what you think of the following statement with respect to presenting a 24 hour chip. ... "and now the most important chip of all, 24 hours to 29 days. No guilt, no shame, we all have enough to go around". Our chip person has been saying this for over a year. Sudd...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 12-18
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December 18, 2017Quote of the WeekIf youre having trouble making a decision, maybe you shouldnt." When I got sober, I suddenly found that I had a lot more options and choices in my life. Now that I wasnt drinking all the time, I could decide to do many other things go to meetings or fellowship, fix up t...
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Sayings that helped .......
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One of the sayings that helped me most when I got sober was that I could start my day again any time I wanted. Most of the time I felt totally trapped by my life and what was going on around me. This saying helped me hugely to take back some sense of control over my day and gave me a sense of a way out of feeling so t...
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How Does Someone Learn About The Benefits Of AA Meetings?
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What we did was simply go to meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous. There are over five million each year, in approximately 150 countries around the globe. And remember, you do not have to become an AA member in order to visit some AA meetings. If all you want to do is sort of "try out" AA, you are entirely welc...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 12 - 11
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December 11, 2017Quote of the WeekThe worst bottom can become the greatest beginning." A woman once shared in a meeting that she used to keep a breathalyzer in her house to help her control her drinking. One day she started drinking too early, lost track of time, and her husband caught her using it...
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Hello Again
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I am back...never really left...just didn't post. Gave up on others, mostly myself. Used this board to vent and unload and caused unnecessary turmoil just because I wasn't handling things in my life....didn't know how to handle things in my life. So when someone here disagreed with me, called me on m...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 12-4
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December 4, 2017Quote of the WeekAlcoholism is an equal opportunity destroyer. I never thought of myself as an alcoholic. My idea of an alcoholic was a bum living in the gutter downtown, or someone wearing a dirty raincoat drinking from a paper bag. I owned a home, had a retirement account, and dine...
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In God's grace and mercy,33 years freedom from active addiction
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I repost this short focus every year to remind myself of the grace and mercy I have received(God's unmerited favor for me)and the daily work I do to remain free of active drug addiction)Alcohol is a drug)I reflect on my sponsor ,my sponsees and above all the God of my own understanding.The message is Ho...
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Fear and Prudence
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For all its usual destructiveness, we have found that fear can be the starting point for better things. Fear can be a steppingstone to prudence and to a decent respect for others. It can point the path to justice, as well as to hate. And the more we have of respect and justice, the more we shall begin to fin...
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Simple Reminders - Nov
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Today's Gift - Nov
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I Will Attend a Meeting Creator; I will attend a meeting today. I promise to seek out the similarities and not the differences. I will find something good in everything that is shared. I will praise the clean and sober and pray for the using addict. At the end of the day I will thank You for my recovery. It d...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 11-27
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November 27, 2017Quote of the WeekWillingness is the key. I was one big Gordian knot of self-will when I got to the program. I bristled at your suggestions to attend meetings every day, and took offense at many of my sponsors directions. I was too good to sweep the floors, and had no interest in shakin...
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Trip to the Past
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Tonight, with all the 'trick or treaters', I was transported to the late 50's ... my folks took me and my sister to the 'exclusive' side of town, with a couple neighborhood kids, to go collect some candy ... since we were in the 'low rent' district, it was a real treat ... ... ... (the big candy bars)(5cent...
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Guilt & Attachment
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well i thought i would stop back in because i decided what better folks to reason with than those who might possibly understand 'better .. better to reason with those seeking recovery than those seeking the drink .. a family member of mine (alcoholic) came in town today .. i feel guilt because i don't wa...
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Tenderness
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I had never heard that as a topic before in any recovery meeting I've ever been to. I went to the morning meeting because I needed to be in the dialogue where I often find the characteristics of my Higher Power and a friend of mine started the sharing and with the topic of Tenderness and I got triggered b...
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Walked Away...
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I wanted a morning meeting this morning and went with the awareness that last week Wednesday I got "smoked out" of the meeting. The meeting is held in a county park pavilion and county park ordinances are no smoking and then ordinances are subject to alcoholism right? I left that meeting...not on...
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Wow, it's kind of weird...
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I can now drink 26 ounces of vodka with hardly a stumble. My increasing tolerance is starting to frighten me. Oh well...at least I dont drive drunk anymore :) But seriously...I'm kind of concerned :|
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New & checking things out
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When i created my name i used the name Maybe I Am .. I have been a member of alanon for a long time (many years) and one day i was talking to a friend in recovery who is yep a double 'winner. she's got aa under her belt for many years and one day as we were talking she mentioned to me .. ''have you ever thought you m...
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As a die hard atheist...
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I can never believe in god or a higher power. Am I doomed?
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Wisdom of the Rooms 11-6
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November 6, 2017Quote of the WeekA.A. = A program of 1,000 surrenders. I was taught to never give in and never give up. To surrender was to lose, and I was to avoid it at all costs. As such, I led with my ego, and thought that I could bully, cajole, or manipulate my way into getting just about anything I wa...
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Need some friends :)
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Hello all- new to the boards, but not new to recovery and AA. Could just use some friends. Got sober in 2006, relapsed after 8 years, and have been in and out ever since. I don't go to meetings anymore... I guess that's why I'm here.
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Every day for thanks
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Have a blessed and productive Thanksgiving day.We reflect and know every day in recovery is Thanksgiving,pay it forward..The trials and tribulations will still come,but we can face them in a lucid frame of mind and WE can move forward in God's(of your own understanding) grace and mercy...
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What really happens to your body when you stop drinking alcohol?
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What really happens to your body when you stop drinking alcohol? There are plenty of reasons to quit drinking alcohol. Perhaps you can't party as hard as you once did, and the hangovers are getting worse. Maybe you've developed a beer belly. Possibly, there's a deeper issue at play and you don't w...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 11-20
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November 20, 2017Quote of the WeekYoull never have it all together. Thats like eating once and for all." Ive wasted a lot of time and energy waiting for everything to be just right. But its never turned out that way. I felt like if only I could get that perfect job and make a certain amount of money, th...
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Pickles Comic
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12 Tips for Sober Holidays
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From the December 1989 Grapevine magazine.12 Tips for Sober Holidays Line up extra AA activities (help on the phones, speak, empty the ashtrays).Be host to friends, especially newcomers, at home or at a coffee shop.Keep your AA telephone list with you at all times.Find out about holiday meeti...
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November 14th Is Important
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Big celebration at my houseNovember 14 is National Pickle DayNOVEMBER 14, 2017, BY BECCA MITCHELL,November 14 is National Pickle Day in the United States! It's unknown where the holiday actually originated but according to Time.com, the day was the end result of a week of celebrations organiz...
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I'm okay and I'm sorry
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My apologies for my recent drunken sh*it-posting. I was doing great on Naltrexone, thought I didn't need it anymore (kind of like I've done with the program)...went off it and eased my way back into bender-beast-mode. For reasons that I can't explain I end up here when that happens. I'm back on my tr...
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Wisdom of the Rooms 11-13
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November 13, 2017Quote of the WeekBe kind, be loving, be quiet. I used to have a lot to say. At parties or gatherings, I had to make sure everyone was listening to the stories or jokes or opinions I had, because, dont you know, I knew everything. And after a few drinks, I became the obnoxious attention...
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Retirement
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I went to my first meeting in 1985. After finally taking the steps with a sponsor I stayed sober for 6 yrs., in AA. My alcoholic mind eventually told me my job was more important than going to meetings and working with others. Of course, I drank again and went in and out of AA for years. I racked up 14 DUI,s in...
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