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Today's Gift
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Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. --Step Three of Alcoholics Anonymous Let's cut right to the heart of the matter: We get in trouble if we try to run our own lives. Our ego starts to mess things up. We try to control things we can't control. We think we a...
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Today's thought
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Heard at a meeting tonight: "Sometimes you can be too smart for this program, but you can never be too dumb." I think there is a hell of a lot of truth in that.
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Gratitude
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Hey all:) today I just wanted to write about gratitude. I am profoundly grateful for sobriety. My life has changed tremendously since becoming sober. Im grateful for the fellowship of aa.. Never thought I'd say THOSE words lol. The fact that I have God in my life everyday, and that I welcome that relat...
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God Calling - Rule The World
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"What is wrong in your country? Think out quietly, and make these matters your prayer matters. You will see lives you never touch altered, laws made at your request, evils banished. You may never go beyond one room and yet you may become one of the most powerful forces for good in your country, i...
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RIP My Best Friend Ever! (sobbing)
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I'm crying like a freaking baby after me and my sister were crying together about our best friend ever dying... We had her for anout 12+ years and her name was Pumpkin, and she will never ever ever be forgotten... she will be in our hearts forever. Poem: rainbow Bridge: Author Unknown Just this side of...
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Question regarding AA members sharing with Al-Anon
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Question. My spouse is in Al-Anon and I'm in AA. My spouses's Al-Anon sponsor has a spouse who's an alcoholic attending the same AA meetings as I am. I love my group hall (location) and cannot afford to leave but, I wonder since the alcoholic spouse has been sober a lot longer than I, would said spous...
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Yay!
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Yay! After much studying and anxiety, I passed the licensure test to become a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. I put that crap off for 15 years thinking there was no way to get to a license after dropping out of my Ph.D program in clinicial psychology. As it turned out, I had to take 3 grad school clas...
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Backsliding solution
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Sometimes, especially early in recovery, it feels like we are taking two steps forward and one step back. Go forward twelve steps and you'll never have to go back.
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God Calling - Stray Sheep
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"For straying there is no cure except to keep so close to Me that nothing can come between us. Sure of that, you can but stay at My side, knowing that, as I am the very Way itself, nothing can prevent your being in the Way, nothing can cause you to stray." 365 One-Minute Meditations from God Ca...
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Happy Birthday Tasha
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Congratulations on what? .. your 56th BD ??? (aka 29, ... yeah, right!)(Jack Benny never got over 39 either) __________________ -- Edited by Pythonpappy on Wednesday 8th of August 2012 12:28:11 PM
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I've just read "5 people you meet in heaven"
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I just read "5 people you meet in heaven"... And I got some pretty good "ohhh, ok now I get it" moments. But, lookin at my resentments, I'm still kinda like "WTF you do that for?" And then I realized, there was this event that divided my life... Similar to BC vs AD. and I re...
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Global perspective
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I'm genuinely asking. Why do NA and AA rival? Their sybling programs. I'm pretty sure that in the steps themselves, there is only one word change. Do AA and NA rival in your neck o the woods? And what state/providence do you live in? (that's obviously optional by the way) I live in pa and NA and AA are so &qu...
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The honesty part of the program
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Recently, Frodo said, "...because how I'd need to break the law here to do it which would mess with the honesty part of the program..." I have heard something else a few weeks back about the law and the honesty part of the program that I dismissed but Frodo has me curious. Do you think that fol...
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Today's Gift
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If you would be loved, love and be lovable. --Benjamin Franklin We all desire to be loved. Our common human characteristic is our need to count in someone else's life. At least one other person needs us, we tell ourselves, when we feel least able to accept life's demands. How alike we all are. The parado...
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Manageability???
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Admitting unmanageability "What do you mean, 'unmangeable'?" we ask when we first come into the program. (And we are surprised at the smiling faces and suppressed chuckles.) We have been living with our delusions for so long that we really believe everything is okay - or will be okay nex...
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Grandma's Are Smarter Than Teenagers
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Grandmas Birth Control Pills********* The doctor that had been seeing an 80-year-old woman for most of her life finally retired. At her next checkup, the new doctor told her to bring a list of all the medicines that had been prescribed for her. As the young doctor was looking through these, his eyes g...
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WE ALL CLAP FOR TODAY..
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Its a miracle if we can even go a FULL 24 hours/day being clean and sober.... think about it, hence MIP...
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"legitimate resentments"
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Hey all:) I haven't really spoken to my Mother since being sober. This isn't a conscious choice, per se, more an outcome of my own wacky work schedule. Of course, there have been many opportunities to call, she has left me numerous messages.. I've left many in return. I'll call her when I'm at work, to en...
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Selfishness.... Really?
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I heard something at a meeting this morning that I don't know that I've "heard" before. A guy mentioned that sometimes we hold issues/resentments/problems/inner struggles inside and don't share them soon enough. It also takes sharing something with another alcoholic for us to realiz...
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My heart is heavy laden
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I filed for divorce today. I know no big decision in the first year of sobriety. However, I filed the first time a year ago, while I was sober, my husband is an in additive addiction. We were seperated but he begged that I stopped the divorce and to take him back and after 10 months of living apart, we gav...
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Thanks for the the birthday wishes : )
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Thanks everyone : ) It's the first birthday I can remember, that I wasn't truly and utterly disappointed and actually crying about it... you know... when they did not hire a circus, or send me into outer space, or have Elvis come back to life and sing love me tender to me, and only me. They didn't have a thr...
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God Calling - Empty Yourself
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"Rely on Me alone. Pay all out in the spirit of trust that more will come to meet your supply. Empty your vessel quickly to ensure a divine supply. So much retained by you, so much the less will be gained from Me. It is a law of divine supply. To hold back, to retain, implies a fear of the future, a want...
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Meetings!!
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I never stay away from a meeting because I will shut myself out. I will have the key to enter, but I will not be able to open that door.
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velcro wall
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I've always thought I should line one of my dining room walls completely in Velcro - get my kids suits made entirely of velcro - and then just stick them to it. I've thought it would teach them to appreciate detaching in a fun way. Do you guys think they would learn anything? Sometimes it seems like they ar...
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Today's Gift
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Letting go If addiction is about control, recovery is about letting go. If addiction is about denial, recovery is about accepting what is. As we spend time in the program, we learn something unexpected and amazing. Life is so full of twists and turns, it's easier to follow along than to try to straight...
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Hahaha I'm crazy
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Yesterday, I was sitting down to begin the resentments piece of my 4 step. I meditated for a little while before I sat down with it. And then I looked and thought... Resentments? I don't have any... Except myself.
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Picture
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Has any of you seen the picture called Calvary? I ordered it last night and it won't stay out of my head. It depicts a drug addict shooting up into his arm, but it's really his HP's arm (Jesus). It's shocked me but at the same time it rings true. Tracey
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the past
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hey peeps. i'm quite shaken up right now and thought al-anon is the best place i can turn to for advice on this. i may post this on AA too to get advice from recovering AAers. hope that's ok. i've just discovered my fiancé (recovering) has a bit of a criminal past. i knew about one thing that happened (DUI) b...
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Cleaning house
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Hey all:) So, I've decided to clean and organize the heck outta my apartment. I've lived in this apartment for 2 years now. I love it.. 3rd floor of a huge rambling Victorian-era house. Only the couple who own the house and I reside in it-it's simply lovely:) Put simply, my place is a freakin mess-clothe...
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Today's Gift
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I love being able to say, "I was wrong," or "I made a mistake," and not feel like it's the end of the world. --Carol C. Before recovery, we felt so guilt-ridden we couldn't bear to admit we were less than perfect. Since our insides seemed so awful, we clung to an outside appearance o...
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After the Flood
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So yesterday, I was working in another town. Boy was it raining. As I drove back home, feeling a little grumbly (raining again, roads flooded again, bugger) I decided to call off at the food shop to get a few bits and some ready meals (TV Dinners to you, also found some curried haggis tho') The landlady of...
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My best friend relapsed
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My best friend who i got sober with a year and a half ago relapsed 2 days ago. When she told me this morning, it made me question my own sobriety. I feel so lost and confused, I know I can't let my sobriety be dependant on her, but I feel so different now. She is saying she is sick of A.A., the people are messed up...
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Today's Gift
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Returning to Basics Now and then, an AA discussion focuses on the theme of "returning to the basics." This is a good time to shake out the excessive concerns that might be cluttering up our lives. No matter how long we've been living in sobriety, we can never afford to dismiss the basic reaso...
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AA the movie
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Watched my name is bill last night on YouTube. Thought it portrayed alot of the altruism about aa. But I didn't see alot of the oxford group mentioned.
Have you seen the movie? What were yourthoughts?
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A sincere thak you to the people on this board and a sincere goodbye.
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After a lot of serious consideration I've decided that I'm going to deal with my issues in a different way. I've come to believe that alcohol isn't the cause of my problems but simply a symptom. For as long as I can remember I've struggled with my self image, self esteem and a lot of other things relating b...
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Couple of things I thought I'd share
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When I first started going to meetings, I always had a small pad and pen with me so I could jot down things others shared that really struck me. After a while I started carrying a smaller purse (under the guise of less room less clutter Haha!!!) Anyway, I now have a smartphone and use the notepad app on it i...
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need direction on sponsorship
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Hi, I am new and very alone in a new city. I have 47 days of sobriety. I am thinking and feeling with a lot less fog, and feeling lots of emotions and resentments that are hard to know how to deal with, but committed to not drinking a day at a time. Here is what I need to run by people. I am on my 4th step with spo...
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Serenity Prayer
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I just found this serenity prayer on facebook. It cracked me up. God grant me a vacation to make bearable what I can't change. A friend to make it funny and the wisdom to never get my knickers in a knot because it solves nothing and makes me walk funny.
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Antabuse
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I'm curious. Does anyone currently use Antabuse (disulfiram) in his/her recovery? Anyone ever use it in the past?Facts, opinions, analysis, feelings? Efficacy? -- Edited by Tanin on Monday 6th of August 2012 04:24:50 PM
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Daily Reflections ~ Driven & 24hrs a Day
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Driven by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 My selfishness was the driving force behind my drinking. I drank to celebrate success and I drank to drown my sorrows. Humility is the a...
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Cutting ties
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My mother is worried about the safety of me driving my truck. It's a 1999 gmc Sierra. My father crashed it before he died. I used the money I got from him to repair it when I was 15. Since then, I have hit 1 school bus (under the influence) 1 garbage truck (tailgating and texting) a church wall (it's complica...
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Dad and the new I-pad
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This is in German, but it's easy to see what's going on in the commercial ...Audio in German. No need to check audio. No Audio is required. http://www.snotr.com/video/8965/ -- Edited by Pythonpappy on Monday 6th of August 2012 10:28:52 PM
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Never alone again Even in death
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If you are here to read this,Think of those who aren't.Pray for them: good thoughts for thosewho lost their minds, love and yearsto compulsion, addiction and fears.Think of their great sacrifice. We recover on the bones of others.Wrap your loving thoughts around them:alone no more. If you are here...
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God Calling - Dwell Apart
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"Rest more with Me. Refilling with the Spirit is a need. That dwelling apart, that shutting yourself away in the very secret place of your being - away alone with Me. From these times you come forth in power to bless and heal."
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God Calling - Hour of Need
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"I am your healer, your joy. You bid Me, your Lord, come. Did you not know that I am here? With noiseless footfall I draw near to you. Your hour of need is the moment of My coming. Could you know My love, could you measure My longing to help, you would know that I need no agonized pleading. Your need i...
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Does any one know of an affordable rehab?
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I should have just gone to a rehab facility a year ago when I realized I was an alcoholic. I had no clue how dangerous it was going to be getting sober. I was physically ill and litteraly went insane, and ended up with 3 arrests while intoxicated. It didn't make any sense to me how getting off of alcohol I end...
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Happy 65th BB Birthday, Leeu!!!
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Do you get anything free for that in your country?? ;) We get a free bus pass here in Liverpool hehe Love you, Danielle x
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Total Honesty ???
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Another Good 'side-effect' of being in AA and practicing the program daily ... ... ... LOL ... I thought this was hilarious ... Pappyposted on AUGUST 4, 2012Living Without Lies Might Make You HealthierFiled under HEALTH, LIFESTYLE, PREVENTION, RESEARCHFor good health, be sure to eat fruit...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 16th Nov 08
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A.A. Thought for the Day I have got rid of most of my inner conflicts. I was always at war with myself. I was doing things that I did not want to do. I was waking up in strange places and wondering how I got there. I was full of recklessness when I was drunk and full of remorse when I was sober. My life didn't make...
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He just walked in with a beer.
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My husband and I have been stressed and bickering all day. He has not drank (that I know of) since I began AA. I never told him not to, he never said he was going to quit too, he just doesn't really drink anyway. Tonight, he came in, as it seemed to me, with revengeful drinking in front of me. I stopped dea...
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