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God Calling - Storms
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"There is no miracle so wonderful as the miracle of a soul being kept by My power. Forces of evil batter and storm, but are powerless. Tempests rage unavailingly. It is like a cool garden with sweet flowers and bees and butterflies and trees and playing fountains set in the midst of a mighty roar...
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Been a while :)
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Too long ! I just wanted to pop in and say hi. It's good to see some of my friends are still hangin' around! Brian
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Identity
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We were talking about fear in a meeting yesterday, and I started thinking about identity. The first time I ever got drunk when I was fourteen I couldn't believe how much I loved it. All of a sudden I wasn't nervous or quiet, I felt like I was the person I really was, the person I was supposed to be. I graduall...
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Today's Gift 12 - 15
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It is a cheap generosity which promises the future in compensation for the present. --J. A. Spender Living in this moment is all we really have. We are constantly bombarded with advice to live for the future, but it perpetually exists beyond our grasp like the carrot tempting the donkey. We are told to...
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Please Welcome a New Member Jack D
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I'm not sure if Jack knew how to create a new thread, so I took the liberty doing so. Welcome to the board Jack. It's nice to have someone with 40+ years here to share their experience, strength, and hope. Jack D's Story: (from his profile) assume this is my AA biography... lousy story. I grew u...
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feeling a little snowed
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The delicately planned sins of today are a bit different than they were a year ago. Today I trudge to the back pen to tend to my buried-alive-in-snow hobby farm animals. Some of them are less than a year old, and haven't experienced 14 inches of snow suddenly, yet gently turn their world white. I soak...
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Types of meetings
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I'm still trying to figure out all of these different types of meetings. What is a 12 & 12 step meeting? A study group? How does step discussion differ from a regular meeting?
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Daily Reflections ~ A Genuine Humility & 24hrs a Day
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. . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoholic personality...
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Today's Gift 12 - 12
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When all else fails, read the instructions. --Agnes Alien The instructions for recovery are in our Twelve Step program. Yet, there are times when we feel our program isn't working. At these times, we need to read the instructions. Have you followed the "instructions," the wise words fou...
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Footprints (HP) AA Version
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-- Edited by StPeteDean on Wednesday 12th of December 2012 05:05:22 PM
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Today's Gift 12 - 13
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Dare to be empty. Dare to let go. Dare to believe. --Elisabeth L. Not many of us have received a direct, visual experience of God. Most of us only sense a Presence, or perhaps see the evidence of God's help. It takes profound faith to live moment by moment in the knowledge that God is always here. The found...
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From the GrapeVine
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"Neither God nor AA can help us if we are not open to help."
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Today's Gift 12 - 09
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This is a we program. --Saying heard at meetings Newcomer Why must I have a sponsor? Cant I do this on my own? Sponsor Sponsorship is a strong suggestion not a rule. Yes, some people do stay in recovery without a sponsor. And no, we cant recover on our own. There are great advantages to taking the program s...
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Today's Gift 12 - 10
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Progress, Not Perfection. --Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. We can actual...
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Today's Gift 12 - 08
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Reflection for the Day I'll begin today with prayer - prayer in my heart, prayer in my mind, and words of prayer on my lips. Through prayer, I'll stay tuned to God today, reaching forward to become that to which I aspire. Prayer will redirect my mind, helping me rise in consciousness to the point where I r...
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We gotta stick together
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Ok, so there's this coworker of mine who I DO NOT get along with- he's 22, arrogant, ignorant and sexist. He does not care for me, either. Last week, another coworker had asked me if I would be attending this years holiday party, and I was completely honest with her and my reservations about going to a boo...
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Don't Touch the Buttons
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In a Hospital, a gentleman had made several attempts to get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied. A nurse noticed his predicament. Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if you promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall." He did what he needed to, and as he s...
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Today's Gift 12 - 06
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The 12 Step way of life is accepting, not necessarily passive. --Anonymous When we accept life on life's terms, we are acknowledging reality. We have all, on occasion, run from the truth. When we were in a situation that frightened us, we would turn tail and run. We would do our imitation of an ostrich a...
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Today's Gift 12 - 07
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SerenityYour body is tense. Your face is somber and serious, ready to deliver the news. You may be slightly breathless. There's a crisis. It may be real. Or it may be self-created.Like an audience in a sports arena, we watch the events of life or even The Weather Channel drumming up reactive responses...
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Daily Reflections ~ True Ambition & 24hrs a Day
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True ambition is not what we thought it was. True ambition is the deep desire to live usefully and walk humbly under the grace of God. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 124-25 During my drinking years, my one and only concern was to have my fellow man think highly of me. My ambition in everything...
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VENTING with Graditude!
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http://alanon.activeboard.com/t51579198/needing-support/
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Anger problem?
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I read myself stating in another post here that my goal was to be calm even if a bomb went off next to me... Nonetheless, I find that in sobriety I am quicker to get angry and I do have temper tantrum explosions that I didn't use to have when I drank. Back then I would just break down before ever yelling and s...
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SOBER/DRY?
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Perhaps Im nitpicking, however when a newcomer or perhaps someone coming back refers themselves as sober I sort of shutter as it took me a lot of time to start to get sober. After a good # of 24 hours I still have my dry times. A sponsor once told me that being dry is acting and reacting the same as when I was dr...
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Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation
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Interesting new research described in this summary. Supports the conclusions that AA provides roughly equal benefits for men and women but that the benefit types may be different.Appears to be reasonably good research.Women and men appear to benefit in different ways from AA participation Dec...
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i been in aa 3 months now
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I been sober 3 in a half months now, and there still so cliquey they go places never think to invite me they dont call me ever when i call or text thenm its very seldom it sucks
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He flies in on a pink cloud
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"Oh my Gosh!" He giggles "These old ladies are SO crazy! Talking about if they would take chemo if they had cancer, and about their cat's and dogs, and I swear not one was under 70! It was the best meeting ever!" So my husband turns the corner in alanon and I trust in the program so...
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Time to lighten Up --- A Joke --- 'Voices'
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A doctor had sex with one of his female patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he just couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal of his patient were overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said: "D...
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Antsy
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I am feeling super antsy tonight. I have a ton of work on, I'm a bit grumpy, and this is when I'd usually start looking forward to tomorrow night's drink. I am not very good at just relaxing. Think I should go to a meeting tomorrow.
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Teachers & Cops Quotes
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Subject: Teachers & Cops Quotes Teachers? Report CardsThese are actual comments made on students' report cards by teachers in the N** Y*** City public school system. All teachers were reprimanded (but, boy, are these funny!) 1. Since my last re...
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Welcome WolfRider
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Welcome to MIP WolfRider ... glad you're here ... Pappy
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Romantic Christmas Shopping Story
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I guess I'm just a softie----these romantic stories always get to me. > A couple was Christmas shopping at the mall on Christmas Eve and the mall was packed.> As the wife walked through the mall she was surprised to look up and see her husband was nowhere around. She was quite upset because they ha...
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GrapeVine
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December 5 "The most important factor in eliminating resentments is to know you have them. You can't fix something if you don't know what's wrong." La Verne, Calif., December 1966 From: "Caught...
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Today's Gift 12 - 05
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Recovery releases our creativity Creativity implies something new - feeling, thinking, acting in a new way. When we step out of a familiar pattern, we often feel anxious. We wonder if the new way will work or if a new venture will succeed. We take a chance, a risk, and that requires courage. If we refuse...
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Finally asked for a sponsor
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Ok. I took the plunge today and asked another womanFri be my sponsor. I can't take this misery anymore and I can't get the growth that I need from my temp sponsor. She is an awesome listener, but I need more right now. As soon as I asked she gave me assignments to keep me accountable. I need that. I am respons...
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Hi, New comer
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Hello, My name is Mylita and I am a new comer to AA. Today will be twenity three day somber. I went to my first meeting three week ago and I am so happy I join AA. I still have not found a sponcer but that okay. I will continue going to AA. I feel recharge all the time I leave AA. It have given me hope when I had non...
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law enforcement in AA
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Today is my 9 month birthday. I went to the group I've gone to weekly and spoke for the 3rd time in 9 months (briefly) and got my coin. I am a member of the local law enforcement group in a fairly small community and find it difficult to share at local meetings with people that I'm familiar with and who are c...
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Perspective
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Part of having an open mind is changing the way we look at things. An old Chinese proverb...change but your mind on what you want to see and the whole world changes accordingly. I had a hard time with this in early sobriety and someone suggested that I read "A New Pair of Glasses" by Chuck Cham...
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Today's Gift 12/4/12
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Today's thought from Hazelden is: We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth. --Virginia Satir Virginia Satir was an internationally acclaimed therapist. She knew a lot about what people need to be healthy and happy and to live in...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 3, 2012 Quote of the Week "After 5 years of sobriety you get your brains back, after 10 you learn how to use them, and after 15 years you realize you never needed them anyway." What a cord of recognition this struck when I first heard it (at 10 years recovery). I remember the f...
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Today's Gift 12 - 03
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You Give Me Strength Lord God, thank You for loving me Even when I turn away from You. I am grateful for Your constant care and concern. Though I feel unworthy of Your great love, I thank You that through my weakness You give me strength, And in my wandering You show me the way. --Author unknownYou are read...
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Grapevine Quote of the Day 12/3/12
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December 3 "When life presents us with a racking conflict ... we cannot be altogether blamed if we are confused. In fact, our very first responsibility is to admit that we are confused." AA Co-Founder, Bill W., August 1...
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Service thread
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I took on a service committment today to be a GSR for one of my homegroups. I'm interested if any of you guys may have done this and can share what it was like. I also figured this would be a good way to start a thread on how many million ways there are to do service in AA. A couple of things are obvious which inc...
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I don't do "Buts"
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because the consequence of that, for me, kills the lessons Ii should be learning. Aloha MIP family. Had a wonderful Sunday morning version meeting of AA at the Bay. We have a Saturday and Sunday version. Yesterday's group was beyond spiritual imagination nicely salted by the shares of new-come...
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IN HUMBLE GRATITUDE!
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December 2nd, 1984 a cold morning, I came to on the floor of a farm house in Rhinebeck New York for the last time. I was 6 months into my 3rd marriage and was finally aware that the insanity of my life was doing the same thing again and again knowing what the results would be. I lifted my head and surren...
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The Care Of
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Tomorrow I will be in the presence of a toxic person in authority, a "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" avoidant person, and a self-serving climber. All of whom want my blessing--or at least not my obstruction--for moving money where it probably (keeping an open mind here) shouldn'...
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Today's Gift 12 - 02
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He that knew all that learning ever writ Knew only this - that he knew nothing yet. --Aphra Behn It's true that the more information we have about the world, the more clearly we see the shape of what we don't know. It's also true that we don't need to learn anything at all in order to deal fairly with others a...
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Random trigger
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So I'm sitting at home, relaxing and doing step work, when I get this text. From an old friend-mostly drinking buddy who I haven't heard from in over a year. This is a girl who drank like I drank- towards oblivion and insanity. She was actually one of those people I used to like to drink with because while I...
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Further to 'RT's' 1st meeting
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I NEVER want to forget this. At my 1st meeting. A bloke was speaking , when a man came into the meeting with a 'd&a' counciler . he had a small 'airlines' bag , nearly fell over me getting to th seat beside me . Th speaker kept talking , when this bloke beside me , stood up , pulled a wine cask out of his bag ....
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Your first meeting
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What was your first meeting like? I went yesterday, and I was surprised by how many people were there. I thought Friday at noon, maybe ten people... there were over forty people there for sure. It was a womens meeting. When the chair asked if there were any newcomers I didn't put my hand up until the last...
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Releasing
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I must slowly learn to lose control, to let go the petals when it is time...learn step by softly-treading step, that what I am, what we are, is the Power to move and be moved, to change and be changed. ~ Linda Roach Letting go doesn't mean releasing our grip on life and falling into the abyss below. Letting...
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