no.....that's not right....not too far off, however, still not correct. My date changed again. The reason I didn't come on here and "confess" when my last drink was is because I was already getting enough of a rough time from a couple of people on here. Sure didn't want to give them yet more ammunition to use.
I am not giving my new sober date on this board. One person on here knows and that is someone I trusted enough not to give me a hard time about it. And that person did not.
Interesting.....I could not recall Tanin ever posting his calculation of anyone else's sober dates but mine. Out of curiousity I learned how to check past postings and unless I overlooked it, mine is the only one and there have been quite a few people since 2013 on here besides me.
Maybe the OP's heart was in the right place, however to say some of the things which have been said to me on other posts--some of which have been very discouraging-- and then to post this type of thing sounds very contradictory, to say the least.
And look guys.....sorry about it. Was not my intention to "lie" by omission. I'm just trying so damned hard to stay sober and would appreciate it very much if those "couple" of people would back off and pick on someone else for a change who is obviously stronger and has a lot longer sobriety time than I do. I realize that although I feel happy and am sober now, my recovery has been in the last year very precarious.
Well done. 90 days is a huge achievement in my opinion. I have stayed sober for 28 years, but for me 90 days was critical because my mind needed a lot of repairs at 90 days. Today my mind does not trouble me about alcohol as much as did then. Therefore for me, you a war hero, because you are continuing to wage that war with your mind.
Keep it up, as life takes on a new meaning. It's easy for me to speak, but it must be a great achievement for you.
